You'd be surprised by what can shift when you shift. When you change your dance moves, the dance between you and your partner naturally changes.

I’ll teach you what shuts men down, how to ask for what you want in a way that is more likely to turn him on, and how to bring out his own natural instinct to initiate.

Of course, your partner has free will, and I would never teach you to pressure or manipulate him into wanting more.

What I can give you is the map, tools, practices, and personalized guidance to understand what’s getting in the way, clear the obstacles, hurt, and resentment that may have built up between you, and create more opportunities for genuine sexual desire, passion and connection to emerge.

Women in the program share stories about their partner becoming more affectionate and even initiating again — without pressure, force, or awkward conversations.

Ultimately, this journey is about you becoming your fully self-expressed sexual self and giving your relationship the best chance — without pressuring him or abandoning yourself.

And if you do this work and discover that your partner still can’t meet you where you are? You’ll have something incredibly valuable: clarity.

Instead of making a decision about whether to stay or go from rejection, frustration, or wondering “Is it me?”, you’ll understand yourself and your needs more deeply — and be in a much stronger place to decide what’s right for you and your relationship.

Plus I can guide you through alternative options if you wish - like opening your relationship gently and slowly (if you're both up for that), or other ways to create sexual fulfillment within the relationship.

You deserve the chance to discover what’s truly possible before giving up on your needs — or on someone you love.

And if it's not this relationship, you'll know how to create the fulfilling sex you want in your next relationship.

Nope! You never have to share anything you don’t want to. You can leave your camera off, use an alias name like "Rainbow Kittens" or "Sexy Seductress", just listen, or participate at whatever level feels comfortable to you. Some women love sharing and connecting with the other women; others prefer to simply learn and experience the practices privately. It's up to you!

And, if you want to share but feel nervous, many women are surprised by how safe it feels to share in the group. We can release shame simply by sharing and being witnessed in our sexual desire, challenges, and experiences. So while I encourage you to share, I also encourage you to honor what feels best for you.

If you never attend a live class and never share one thing in the group, that is beautiful too. You have the option to watch the videos and replays in your own privacy.

I get it. When you love someone deeply but you’re sexually unfulfilled, it can feel like you’re facing an impossible choice: Do I give up the person I love — or give up the sex life I want?

WANTED gives you a far better option: before making that decision, let’s discover what’s possible in the bedroom between you and your partner.

I’ll help you understand yourself, your sexual needs, your partner, and the dynamic between you much more deeply. I'll share the Should I Stay or Go (or Open the Relationship) Clarity Compass™ to help you make the best decision for you.

You’ll have the opportunity to clear the hurt and resentment that may have built up. Resentment can cloud the way we see our relationship — and even make us feel hopeless when there may still be hope. From there, you can try new approaches, become more fully expressed as a Highly Sexual Woman, and give your relationship its best chance.

And if you do all of that and discover that your partner still can’t meet you where you are? You’ll have clarity.

Instead of making a life-changing decision from rejection, frustration, or wondering “Is it me?”, you’ll know what you need — and be in a much stronger place to decide what’s right for you.

The key is to RISE UP as your fully expressed, authentic sexual self and from there, invite your partner to join you. Then you get to see.... can he rise up and join you... or not?

And if it’s not this relationship, you’ll take everything you’ve learned with you so you can create a more fulfilling sex life in your next relationship. You wouldn't be starting over. You'd have a whole new understanding of yourself, your sexuality, and what you need in love.

Many women who join WANTED choose not to tell their partner at first. Not because they're keeping a secret, but because they're not sure how to talk to him about it.

Other women tell their partner all about it. It's up to you.

If you make all financial decisions together, yes, please talk to your partner first. Instead of asking for permission, share your excitement.

Tell him this is a program for YOU — for your own empowerment and sexual confidence. There's nothing he needs to do differently. Second, it can bring you and your partner closer and make your sex life even better — not because it’s bad, but because you’re ready to experience the next level. Your excitement and confidence will be contagious.

Your partner does NOT need to participate. You'll receive a few optional bonus videos and PDFs you can share with him if he's open to it. But this is a program for YOU.

Maybe you’ve tried couples therapy, date nights, scheduling sex, lingerie, initiating more, initiating less… and you’re wondering, “What could possibly be different this time?”

WANTED is different because it’s a creative, joyful approach that goes DEEP — mind, body, and spirit.

I bring together 25+ years teaching experience, my education in sexuality and desire discrepancy from the University of Michigan, and my own experience as a Highly Sexual Woman who has wanted more sex than my partner in multiple relationships.

Two of my greatest gifts are creativity and intuition.

Not only will I share best practices, but I'll tune into the dynamic between you and your partner. I’ll hold up a mirror and help you see the blind spots — things you may not be seeing on your own.

You’ll discover what's actually happening underneath the surface — including the 12 reasons men stop initiating and what turns desire up or down for both of you.

And then we go deeper with GLOW Practices, Heart Opening & Resentment Clearing, Long Luxurious Lovemaking Sessions, hypnotherapy guided meditations to clear subconscious blocks and open up new possibilities within you, embodiment practices, shame healing, playful ways to initiate intimacy, and more.

WANTED isn’t about trying harder. It’s about trying things you may have never tried before — and having FUN discovering what actually works for you and your relationship.

Ask yourself this:

🔹 Am I willing to do sexual practices — both solo and, if applicable, with my partner?

🔹 Am I willing to put 2 hours per week into this journey? (10 mins here, 30 mins there)

🔹 Am I willing to grow, be curious, and stretch beyond my comfort zone?

If so, Wanted will help you. My teachings have helped thousands of people over the past 25+ years.

What is ONE result you’d want to see that would make this course worth it to you? Email me and I’ll tell you if that’s a result this course can help you with - or not.

I don’t want you to just believe me. You’ll experience results yourself. And if for some bizarre reason you don't, there's the Courtney Cares Money-Back Guarantee.